Wednesday, August 19, 2026

ROMANS 15: LIVING TO PLEASE GOD, NOT OURSELVES

 


Life in the church is not always easy. People are different. Some are strong in faith, some are weak. Some understand more, some understand less. But Paul teaches us in Romans 15 that the strong must carry the weak, just as Christ carried us.

“Christ’s example is the strongest argument for Christian love.” This chapter is a call to unity, patience, and hope. Paul reminds us that we don’t need complicated reasons to love others. The best reason is simply this: Christ loved us first. His life is proof.

Romans 15:1–2: “We who are strong have an obligation to bear with the failings of the weak, and not to please ourselves. Let each of us please his neighbor for his good, to build him up.

Do not live for yourself. Live to help others. Christ Himself did not please Himself but bore our sins and shame (v.3).

The church is called to harmony, so that “with one voice” we may glorify God (v.6).

The principle is love that builds up. Christian love means denying ourselves for the good of others. True strength is shown when we carry the burdens of the weak. Unity is not everyone being the same, but everyone being patient and kind in Christ.

· Sharing in worship

You may want to sing your favorite song, but the church sings another. Denying yourself means singing with joy anyway, because worship is for God, not for us.

·Serving in unnoticed roles

Many want to lead, but denying yourself means gladly cleaning the church, arranging chairs, or helping in washing the dishes or cleaning the toilet— work that may not be seen but build up the body.

· Welcoming newcomers

You may want to sit with your close friends. Denying yourself means sitting with a new visitor, making them feel loved and part of the family.

· Forgiving quickly

 Someone may say something that hurts you. Denying yourself means forgiving them fast, so unity in the church is not broken.

Romans 15:7: “Therefore welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of God.” This is a command. We must welcome one another, even when we are different. Christ welcomed us when we were sinners. In the same way, we must welcome others into fellowship.

Warning

The warning is clear: if we live only to please ourselves, we will break unity.  Selfishness destroys Christian love. Division makes the church weak, and the world will not see Christ in us.

As believers

Romans 15:13: “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.”

  • Encourage, not criticize.
  • Welcome differences in culture, age, and maturity.
  • Pray for joy, peace, and hope in the Spirit.
  • Serve humbly, just as Christ served us.

Romans 15 is a call to live for others, not for ourselves. Christ carried our burdens, so we must carry one another.  May the God of hope fill us with joy, peace, and unity, so that our lives shine for His glory.

Romans 15:33 “May the God of peace be with you all. Amen.”

 

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PAS MAY - JCRC STEUNG MEANCHEY

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ROMANS 15: LIVING TO PLEASE GOD, NOT OURSELVES

  Life in the church is not always easy. People are different. Some are strong in faith, some are weak. Some understand more, some underst...